En un email de una página web a la que estoy registrado descubrí esta bonita oración. Aunque el padre / la madre no debería depender tanto de Dios para conseguirlo, sino poner de su parte para aprender a no serlo, creo que reúne muy bien cosas que mucha gente debería aprender. Espero que también ayude a muchos hijos a ver con otros ojos a sus padres.
AYÚDAME: A comprender a mis hijos, a escuchar pacientemente lo que tengan que decir, a contestar con cariño todas sus preguntas.
HAZME: Tan amable con ellos, como quisiera que lo fueran conmigo.
No me permitas interrumpirlos hablándoles de mal modo, sino enseñándoles con amor.
DAME VALOR: De confesar mis faltas para con mis hijos, no permitas que me burle de sus errores, ni que los humille delante de sus amigos o hermanos como castigo.
NO PERMITAS: Que induzca a mis hijos ha hacer cosas indebidas por seguir mi mal ejemplo.
TE PIDO: Que me guíes todos las horas del día, para que pueda demostrarles, por todo lo que diga y haga, que la honestidad es fuente de felicidad.
REDUCE: Te lo ruego, mi egoísmo. Haz que cese mis críticas de las faltas ajenas, que cuando la ira trate de dominarme, me ayudes, Oh Señor, a contener mi lengua.
HAZ: Que tenga siempre a flor de labios una palabra de estímulo.
AYÚDAME: A tratar a mis hijos, conforme a sus edades, y no me permitas que de los menores exija el criterio y normas de vida de los adultos.
NO PERMITAS: Que les robe las oportunidades de actuar por si mismos con responsabilidad, de pensar, escoger y tomar su decisiones de acuerdo a su edad.
PROHÍBEME: Señor, que los agreda física o verbalmente, con el pretexto de corregirlos, por el contrario que siempre tenga para ellos:
TIEMPO, ABRAZOS, TE AMO Y BESOS.
Cuatro pasos, que como ángeles de la guarda, debo yo regalarles.
PERMÍTEME : El poder satisfacer sus deseos JUSTOS, pero dame valor siempre de negarles un privilegio que sé que les causará daño.
HAZME TAN JUSTO, tan considerado y amigo de mis hijos, que me sigan por amor y no por temor.
AYÚDAME: En fin, a ser un LÍDER para ellos y no un JEFE.
¡SEÑOR YO QUIERO SER COMO TÚ, PARA QUE VALGA LA PENA QUE MI HIJO SEA COMO YO!
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I discovered a prayer in an email from a website to which I'm registered. Although the father / the mother should not depend so much on God to achieve this, but make all what is in his/her hand to learn not to be that, I think it puts together things many people should learn. I hope this also helps sons and daughters to regard their parents in another way.
HELP ME: in understanding my sons and daughters, in listening patiently to what they may have to tell, in answering all their questions with love.
MAKE ME: as kind with them as I would want them to be with me.
Don't allow me to interrupt them talking to them in a bad manner, but make me teach them in love.
GIVE ME THE COURAGE: to confess my faults with my children, don't allow me to mock of their mistakes, nor to humiliate them before their friends nor siblings as a punishment.
DON'T ALLOW ME TO: make my sons and daughters do wrong things for following my being a bad model.
I ASK YOU: that you guide me each and every hour of the day, so that I can show them by means of what I do and say that honesty is the source of happiness.
REDUCE: my selfishness, please. Make me stop criticizing others' faults. Oh Sir, help me control my mouth when wrath tries to dominate me.
MAKE ME: have always an encouraging word ready in my mouth.
HELP ME: treat my sons and daughters according to their ages. Don't allow me to oblige my younger children to behave as adults.
DON'T LET ME: steal my children the opportunities to decide on their own with responsibility, to think, and to choose according to their ages.
FORBID ME: to mistreat them physically or verbally, with the intention of correcting them. Instead, may I always have:
TIME, HUGS, "I LOVE YOU" AND KISSES for them.
Four steps that I must give them as guardian angel.
LET ME : be able to satisfy fairly their desires, but always give me the strength to deny them privileges which I know will hurt them.
MAKE ME SO FAIR, so kind and such a friend for my children that they will follow me for they love me and not because they fear me.
HELP me a be LEADER for them, not a BOSS.
SIR, I WANT TO BE LIKE YOU FOR THEM TO BE WORTH TO BE LIKE ME!
Heil, Trump!
5 days ago
3 comentarios:
Ojalá todos los padres hicieran eso............
besitos
Gracias por ser como eres
You expression is very nice. But You must be friendly with them that is good for everyone. After, they will treat you very greatful. this is my advice. I am very impresive your great thinking nature and I thankful for your sharing nature and you treat to you as a good person. This type all of them think nobody cann't do mistake. I thank ful very much.
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